Benefits and Compensation

You Discriminated, I’m Depressed, I’m Taking FMLA

Segal, a partner in the Philadelphia office of law firm Duane Morris, delivered his suggestions at as recent Society for Human Resource Management Annual Convention and Exhibition.

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9. Delaying implementation of discipline decision

Unfortunately, when you delay a discipline decision, you open a window for the employee to make preventive strike, Segal says. The employee senses that something’s going on and goes to his therapist and says, "My self esteem is bad." The therapist says, "I can’t help but I know a lawyer who can."

The employee comes in the next day: " I’m clinically depressed—ADA-style—because of religious discrimination—of the Title VII variety—but my son’s sick, so, let’s talk when I’m back from FMLA." Now if you take action, it looks like retaliation, says Segal.

When you make a decision like a termination decision or final warning, put it in writing. "Today we met and decided to issue a final warning to Steve. Because he is on vacation this week, we will notify him on his return."

10. Considering protected absences as part of excessive absenteeism

When your supervisors and managers fire for excessive absenteeism, they typically lump in days missed because of a legitimate reason, such as FMLA. If you are going to terminate for attendance, says Segal, do a day-by-day analysis of all the absences. Include a note that says, "We haven’t counted the FMLA absences, and we haven’t counted other absences that might be protected. Counting just those absences that are unequivocally unprotected, your absence is excessive."


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11. Denying employee opportunity to tell his or her side of the story before finalizing decision

"There’s no legal mandate to give employees a chance to explain," says Segal, "but it’s wise. First, it’s a basic fairness issue. But second, you might be wrong."

Segal recounts one particular incident: The CEO’s office was a mess. The cleaning woman was fired for not cleaning the executive suite. To later questioning, she responded as follows:

Did you clean the suite? No.
Did you know you would be fired if you didn’t clean it? Yes.
Was there a reason you didn’t clean it? Yes, the door was locked.

Whoops. It developed that an executive was having sex with his admin assistant. Moral: Ask for the employee’s side of the story.

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2 thoughts on “You Discriminated, I’m Depressed, I’m Taking FMLA”

  1. , “I already have to brelay functioning idiots for sons and I don’t need a third of a kind.” So my mother’s classmate got to keep both toddlers. They must be in their 20s now, and I’ve no clue how their lives turned out.Those of you who are parents, what would you do in such a situation? Would you prefer to keep the kid you are raising now that, you just found out, isn’t yours, or would you want your biological child, assuming you can’t have both?

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